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A Flaw in My Prescription-Transfer for Christmas Gifts Plan



I’m afraid that my plan to transfer prescriptions between pharmacies for gift cards has turned out to be a little less lucrative than I originally thought.

Friday night, I took $40 worth of change to the CoinStar machine at CVS, thinking I would get an Old Navy gift card to take care of a few Christmas presents (plus, I’d get an extra $10 gift card in the mail with the CoinStar holiday bonus program). Alas, Old Navy was not one of the gift cards offered at that location. No problem, I thought - I’ll just get a CVS gift card and use that to buy an Old Navy gift card, since I knew they sold them inside. Only…no. Apparently, you are not allowed to use a CVS gift card (or ECBs, but you probably already knew that) to buy other gift cards.

No!!!!!

Since, I assume, you get an actual $25 CVS gift card when you transfer a prescription to CVS, there is no way to turn that gift card into anything besides CVS merchandise.

What about Walgreens? Well, it turns out you are still safe with that one, because Walgreens typically gives you a $25 gift check, which you can use to purchase other gift cards. But, like at CVS, you can only buy other store’s gift cards with cash or a credit/debit card.

At least I know there will be plenty of Black Friday deals to spend my CVS gift card on! And since my stepson busted his chin open while ice skating and had six stitches yesterday, there’s no money left in the health care spending account now anyway :).

Photo Credit: ClearRx prescription bottles by bartificial, used under Creative Commons licensing.

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Enemies of Frugality, Part 2: Not Planning Ahead



Yes, today is Halloween. (Happy Halloween!)

But if you are truly frugal, your mind has already moved on to Christmas.

I know, I know, it’s sacrilege to begin thinking about Christmas before Thanksgiving, let alone on Halloween, but if you want to do some major Christmas budget slashing - get over it! And with that in mind, I present…

The Second Enemy of Frugality: Not Planning Ahead. (If you missed the first Enemy of Frugality, click here.)

Of course, this one is easier said than done.

But let’s look at an example of how not planning ahead can cost you:

Today, of course, is Halloween. Let’s say you have two kids that you’re taking trick-or-treating tonight. Your son wants to be Spider-Man and your daughter wants to be a fairy. So, on Tuesday night, you took the kids to Target on the way home from practice. Your daughter found a great Tinkerbell costume for $29.99, but the Spider-Man costumes were all sold out in your son’s size. You made some calls, but none of the other stores had one in his size either. “Are you sure you don’t want to be Batman this year?,” you asked. No dice. So, you grabbed 4 big bags of candy for $28, a pumpkin for $4.50, and two pumpkin pails for $2 each and headed home to order a Spider-Man costume online. The $24.99 Spider-Man costumes were all sold out at Target.com, but you found a “puffy muscle” version for $39.99, and paid $12.66 for 2-day shipping in order to get it in time for Halloween. Tonight, you’ll order pizza on the way home from work for $25, since you won’t have time to cook anything. Total cost of a “basic” Halloween (no decorations, no costume accessories, etc.): $119.14 plus tax.

Now, let’s consider what tonight would be like if you had planned ahead (and thus were able to start thinking about Christmas!):

A few days after Halloween last year, you hit up Target with your kids to look for this year’s Halloween costumes. Everything was 75% off (yes, you could have waited for 90% off, but then your picky kids probably wouldn’t have found anything!). You were able to purchase costumes for both kids for a total of $12.50. You knew better than to purchase Halloween candy a year ahead of time, so a month or two ago, you started watching the drug and grocery store ads for sales on Halloween candy, and began printing and collecting candy coupons. Between sales, instant rebates and coupons, you were able to get all of your Halloween candy for $3! Last week, you also scored free pumpkin pails and safety glow sticks for trick-or-treating at CVS! You talked to your boss on Monday about leaving work a little early today, and plan to pop in the D’Giorno pizza you bought on sale for $3.99 while the kids are getting their costumes on. Total cost of a “basic” Halloween: $19.49 plus tax, for a savings of $99.65!

Apply the plan ahead principle to anything, and you’ll soon find you can save money on EVERYTHING.

Photo Credit: The Tree’s Up by yvestown, used under Creative Commons licensing.

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Is it Weird to Avoid Halloween Parties that Involve Costumes?



The last time I went to a Halloween party, my husband and I ended up spending over $100 on our costumes.

They weren’t really anything elaborate - I think we were both punk rockers. I wore an AC/DC shirt (yes I know, not very punk - whatever), a jean skirt, fishnets, Chucks, a spiky dog collar and a fake mohawk, and I think my husband also had a crazy wig and a band t-shirt.

I wanted us to be Napoleon Dynamite and his little sideways ponytail rubber-bracelet wearing girlfriend, but I figured that would be more expensive since we didn’t already have any of that stuff (soooo…I’m guessing this must have been in 2004!).

I searched around some local costume and “vintage” shops for cheap ideas, but everything was EXPENSIVE! So my costume idea that started with a cheap wig and a jean skirt I already owned turned out to actually be quite pricey.

Now that Halloween is on a Friday this year and my stepson is going to be at his mom’s house, we’re trying to decide what to do. A lot of our friends have kids and will be out trick or treating, and the Halloween party we’ve been invited to is a 30-mile drive from our house at a bar with a costume contest. And if anything’s worse than a costume party, it’s a costume contest.

Soooo…will we just stay home and pass out candy? I’m too cheap and lazy for this whole dressing up bit. I mean, are there even any original ideas anymore? I’m sure everyone is going to be dressed as: Amy Winehouse, Sarah Palin/Barack Obama/John McCain/etc., Michael Phelps, The Joker, etc., and I don’t feel like being clever.

At least my dog is getting some use out of the spiky collar from my last Halloween costume.

Photo Credit: Halloween Punk Rocker by rypmar7, used under Creative Commons licensing.

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What Do You Get a Man Turning 100?

 

Why, a Mustang rental, of course!

I was looking through a friend’s scrapbook last night and there was a picture of a very old man sitting in the seat of a car.  It was her husband’s grandfather, who was turning 100. 

Apparently he’d always wanted a Mustang (he still jokes that someday he’s going to get one), so they rented one and picked him up for his 100th birthday party in it.

“After all, a 100-year-old man doesn’t need more stuff,” my friend said.

I couldn’t agree more!

Photo Credit: 20070106-mustang_gt_cardomain 1.jpg by ZHEPER Studios, used under Creative Commons licensing

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Give Your Mom an Experience This Mother’s Day

Every year at the beginning of May, websites and newspaper ads offer Mother’s Day gift ideas.

These oh-so-helpful lists always include a version of the following list:

  • Flowers (or alternately, the hanging basket of flowers - my mom’s Mother’s Day present for 15 consecutive years)
  • A spa gift certificate / massage
  • An iPod (yes, this is the ideal gift for all occasions - just adjust the color accordingly: pink=Mother’s Day)
  • Heart-shaped necklaces, jewelry with the word “MOM” in it and anything with the kids’ birthstones (peridot, turquoise and ruby are going to look great together)
  • Perfume (free purse included!)
  • Candles
  • Chocolate
  • Something the kids made (thanks for the…?)

While some of these are tacky lovely ideas, why not consider an “experience” gift?

Here are some ideas that won’t clutter up your mom’s house, and could lead to lasting memories:

  • Concert tickets
  • A museum membership
  • Tickets to a baseball game
  • A night at a hotel (whoa, not those kind of memories)
  • A cooking or wine-tasting class
  • A hot air balloon ride
  • Horseback riding
  • Theme park admission

Whatever the “experience,” just make sure it is one your mom would enjoy, not just something you’ve been wanting to do. 

Bonus points: An experience that you can do with you mom (mom loves spending time with you!).

(This post was included in the Carnival of Personal Finance, hosted by Money Under 30.)

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A Guilt-Free Way to Reduce the Gift Budget and Snowflake the Difference

Tell me if this sounds familiar:

You’re planning on giving your sister a $20 birthday present - probably a DVD that she’s been wanting. You get to the store, and the DVD is on sale for $9.99. “Great,” you think, “Now I can buy her the DVD and a CD.”

Stop right there.

If you want to get out of debt, you need to gift at retail price. This means that if you can find something that’s worth $20, but on sale for $10, you stop shopping and snowflake the newly found $10 to your debt.

The recipient will never know, and you won’t have to feel guilty about cutting your gift budget.

(This post was included in the Festival of Frugality, hosted by Rather be Shopping)

Photo Credit: Closeup of a gift tag by ashleyg, used under Creative Commons licensing

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Reminder: Time to Shop for Easter ‘09

bunny_edited.jpgShopping at the end of the season can save you big money. Many stores cut prices on holiday merchandise by 50% on the day after the holiday, and keep cutting throughout the week. However, most items are gone within a few days.

With that in mind, it’s time to start thinking about what you’re going to need to buy for Easter next year. Will you need…

  • Easter baskets?
  • Easter grass? (for the bottom of the basket)
  • Plastic eggs?
  • Little Easter toys to go in the basket?
  • Easter candy? (look for stuff that doesn’t expire until after Easter next year, obviously)
  • Easter egg dye/kits?
  • Dress clothes for your kids, or for yourself?
  • Serving plates and dishes?
  • Home decor?
  • But please, be careful. You are only saving money if you purchase things you would have ended up buying at full-price anyway.
    p.s. Googlers - Easter ‘09 is on Sunday, April 12.  You’re welcome.

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    Snowflaking: 100 Ways to Come Up With More Money for Your Debt Snowball

    Yes, you are already doing some of these things.
    But are you doing them all?
    Utilities
    1. Set your utility bills to level pay - Pay the same amount every month so there are no surprises to your budget.
    2. Ask for a discount - Call your gas and/or electric company and ask about discounts you might qualify for. I did this and now receive a discount for having a heat pump. Some utility companies also give discounts for briefly suspending power during peak usage periods.
    3. Weatherize your home - Start with caulking your window frames (interior and exterior), filling gaps with expandable foam and putting foam outlet insulators behind switchplates and outlet covers on exterior walls. We’ve cut our gas bill in half through inexpensive fixes such as these. For more ideas to reduce your energy use, visit the Department of Energy’s Energy Savers website.
    4. Ask for a home energy audit - Many utility companies offer this service for free, or for a minimal cost through selected contractors. This audit will help you focus on home improvements that will save the most energy for your money.
    5. Install a programmable thermostat - Now you can set the temperature to be lower while you’re asleep or not home, and not notice a thing.
    6. Change your furnace filter regularly - It helps your furnace run more efficiently. And no, you don’t have to buy the $15 Filtrate ones.
    7. Use CFLs - Replace incandescent light bulbs with compact fluorescent bulbs as they burn out for big savings on your electric bill.
    8. Conserve water - Do your laundry once a week, only run the dishwasher when it’s full, install a low-flow showerhead, etc.
    9. Shop around for your trash service - I used to think only one company serviced our subdivision. Not true! Call around and check - we switched to a lower-cost company that also does recycling.
    10. Buy a trash can - We used to “rent” a trash can from the trash collectors for $3 a quarter just because that’s what everyone else on the block did. I think it’s safe to say we’ve now recouped our $20 trash can purchase.

      Communications
    11. Discontinue all subscriptions for magazines and newspapers that you don’t always read - If you read all your magazines or newspapers, pick your two favorites and cancel the rest.
    12. Consider getting rid of your home phone - If you have both a cell phone and a home phone, and don’t use the home phone much, get rid of it.
    13. Pretend like call waiting, caller ID and call forwarding were never invented - Your phone bill will thank you for it (if you decide to keep a home phone).
    14. Dump the replacement insurance on your cell phone - Add a contact called “me” into your cell phone with your home phone or other contact number so if you lose your phone, it will be easier for the person who finds it to reach you (your ICE - In Case of Emergency - contact is also fine). Your cell phone also usually comes with a 1-2 year manufacturer’s warranty in case it stops working.
    15. Call your current cable/satellite provider and ask for a better deal - I did this for over two years with Comcast. Every time my three-month special ran out, I would call and say I was thinking about switching to Dish. When they started being stingy, I switched to AT&T (Comcast’s customer service’s response: “Oh, I really wish you would have called us before you did that. If you ever want to come back, we have a special buy-back program for AT&T customers.”)
    16. Shop around for home telephone, cell phone, cable/satellite and Internet services regularly - See if bundling would save you money, or look into other options like VoIP.
    17. Get rid of your cable service, or cut back to basic cable - I cannot wait for the day when I only have to pay based on the channels I watch (Comedy Central, CNN, CNBC, HGTV, Style and DIY). But until then, why not cut the cord (my husband won’t agree to it, or I probably would)? And just because you have an HDTV doesn’t mean you have to pay for the HD channels. As for HBO, Cinemax, Showtime - there’s always NetFlix.
    18. Don’t rent your modem - See #10. I paid Comcast $3 a month for a modem I could have bought for $40.

      Insurance
    19. Re-shop your home and auto insurance rates at least once a year - Try using an insurance broker that can compile rates from multiple companies quickly.
    20. Use the same company - Buy your home/renter’s insurance and auto insurance through the same company for a discount.
    21. Raise your deductible - Raise you car insurance deductible to at least $500, and your home owners deductible to at least $1,000. Consider dropping collision coverage on your car if you drive a paid-for beater.
    22. Make sure you don’t have emergency roadside assistance through multiple places - Do you unknowingly have coverage under your car’s warranty, an auto club and your cell phone? Choose one.
    23. Dump your whole life insurance policy and opt for term life insurance - It costs less. If you’re going to invest, invest within your retirement accounts, not your insurance policy.
    24. You don’t need to have life insurance on your children unless you’re Lynne Spears or Dina Lohan - If you don’t depend on your children for your income, you don’t need to insure their life. If you don’t have much savings and want to have a small policy to pay for a funeral, I’m cool with that.
    25. If you and your spouse/partner work, compare your health insurance policies - Many people assume that if you’re married, it will cost less for you both to have the same health insurance carrier. But in our case, it’s cheaper for me to be on my company’s policy and my husband and stepson to be on his company’s policy.
    26. If you don’t use your employer’s health insurance plan, ask for some money back - OK, so I haven’t had much success with this one, but I work for a small company. At my husband’s work, if you don’t use the company’s health insurance (because you’re covered through your spouse or have other coverage), you get $750. It saves your employer a TON of money by not having to cover you, so why shouldn’t you reap some of the savings?
    27. Get rid of convenience fees - If you pay your insurance bill monthly and are charged a convenience fee for doing so, see if that fee can be waived if you have the amount auto-debited from your checking account.
      Beauty
    28. Go au natural - With your nails and hair, that is. Cut out manicures/pedicures or do them at home. Avoid having your hair professionally colored, straightened or blown out.
    29. Don’t go tanning - It’s bad for your skin and your budget.
    30. Break up with your high-priced hair stylist - But first, why not cheat a little and visit Fantastic Sam’s or Snip ‘n Clip? If you can’t tell the difference, neither can anyone else.
    31. Go longer between haircuts - If you usually do six weeks, try seven. Usually do seven? Try eight.
    32. Skip the wax - After you have your eyebrows done once, you should be able to maintain them without having the salon wax them every few weeks. Re-introduce yourself to the tweezers. If you have your upper lip waxed, try the hair removal cream they sell at the drugstore. If you’re having other things waxed…well, why don’t you limit it to summer or special occasions?
    33. Buy drugstore makeup - It’s really not that different. Although I prefer Clinique and it’s usually a good deal as long as I only buy during “bonus time” (where you get a bag and a bunch of free makeup with your purchase).
    34. Think classics, not trends - Buy classic pieces of clothing that you love. These don’t necessarily have to be expensive. And never spend more than $20 on a trend that will be gone by the following season.
    35. Don’t buy clothes unless they fit perfectly - If they can be modified to fit perfectly by a tailor, factor that cost into the price of the item and actually have it done! That little thing bothering you in the dressing room is going to be end up being the reason you don’t wear it.
    36. Buy clothes near the end of the season for the following year - Just stick with the classics and you’ll be fine. I buy ALL my stepson’s clothes this way.
    37. Avoid “dry clean only” when you can - You’ll pay for the item over and over when you have it dry cleaned.
    38. Alternately, buy Dryell and cut your dry cleaning visits - I use this all the time for my dry clean only items.
    39. If you must visit the dry cleaners, don’t have anything cleaned that can be put in the washing machine - That means you, fellas.

      Children

    40. Don’t have any - Just kidding (kinda)
    41. Pay your child an allowance and clearly define what they are expected to pay for with their own money - Not only will you be closing the Bank of Mom and Dad, you’ll be giving your children real-world financial experience.
    42. Have your child bring their lunch to school instead of paying for hot lunch - If they’re old enough, consider including a certain amount of money in their allowance for lunch costs. Anything they don’t spend, they get to keep.
    43. Set limits on elective school and activity expenses - Buy the soft-cover yearbook instead of the hard-cover. Buy school pictures in the fall, but not when they take pictures again in the spring. You don’t have to buy something every time the teacher sends home book order forms. Etc.
    44. Don’t ask people to buy things for your children’s fundraisers - Then, they (hopefully) won’t ask you to buy things for their children’s.
    45. Speaking of fundraisers, the school or organization typically only receives a small percentage of what you pay for that overpriced wrapping paper and candy - If you must give, do everyone a favor and write them a check directly.
    46. If you go to a fancy salon, don’t take your child there for their haircut - Snip ‘N Clip or Fantastic Sam’s will do just fine (or cut it yourself, if you’re skilled/brave).

      Pets

    47. If your pets are on medication, such as flea or heart worm prevention, purchase it online - It is usually much cheaper than purchasing it from the vet’s office, and many sites offer free shipping with minimum orders. For heart worm and other medication, you may need to have your vet’s office fax over a prescription, but this is not necessary for flea prevention. Be sure to order the correct dosage based on your pet’s weight. Here are some websites to get you started: Drs. Foster Smith and 1-800-Pet-Meds.
    48. If you live in a climate with cold winters, it’s really not necessary to use flea-prevention year-round - I’m really paranoid about this, but I skipped December and January with no problem (I started again the end of February).
    49. Learn to trim your pet’s nails yourself - If you can do it and your pet will tolerate it, that’s another thing you don’t have to pay someone else to do.
    50. Inquire about multi-pet discounts - If you have more than one pet, ask about multi-pet discounts at your vet’s office, groomer and boarding facility.
    51. Trade pet-sitting duties - Instead of boarding your pet when you go out of town, find a friend or relative willing to watch your pet if you’ll watch theirs later. Alternately, hire a friend or relative to “live” at your house while you’re gone and take care of your pets, get the mail, etc., for less than the price of boarding (note: this works better when your friend lives in an apartment with few obligations like children or pets, and your home is nicer than theirs).
    52. Stop buying the expensive pet food - I’m not saying you have to buy generic, just take it down a notch. When we got our dog, I bought only Science Diet for the longest time. Then I went down to Iams, and I’m now down to Pedigree. He likes it just the same, and it’s still a pretty good brand. My vet tech says that’s what she feeds her dogs.
    53. If you have ever been interested in volunteering for a humane society or other animal adoption organization, here’s some extra motivation: These organizations often give their volunteers access to free/reduced vaccinations, microchip implantation, and other services for their pets.
      Entertainment

    54. Order water at restaurants - Even a soft drink sometimes costs $2.50. You’ll shave money off your bill if you skip the drinks.
    55. Use coupons at restaurants - Many people will use coupons at grocery stores, but feel cheap using them in a restaurant. Go ahead and do it - if they didn’t want you to use a coupon, why would they print them? At least the restaurant will know their marketing efforts aren’t being wasted.
    56. Better yet, don’t go to restaurants - Many people go to restaurants because they are too busy to cook. Have back-up plan when you’re in a rush: quick and easy meals in the freezer and individually packaged snacks and drinks. You’ll notice that restaurants fall into my “Entertainment” category - they are non-essential.
    57. Check craigslist for tickets - Unless you are trying to get tickets to Hannah Montana or another sold-out event, you can probably find tickets on craigslist for less than face value (with no taxes and convenience charges).
    58. Your place or mine? - You will save a lot of money if you stop going places with your friends. Do your outings involve restaurants, bars, concerts, shopping, movies and other money-drains? Invite them over instead. You’ll have better conversations, and often, more fun.
    59. Skip the martinis - If you do end up at a happy hour or club, skip the expensive mixed drinks and have a beer. Better yet, volunteer to be the designated driver.
    60. Take a vacation in your own city - Instead of shelling out the big bucks for plane tickets and hotels in another city, why not be a tourist in your own city for a week?
    61. Borrow books from the library - I have to admit that all the late fees I accrue at the library are nothing compared to the cost of buying books new. If there’s a new book you must read now, buy it, read it and then sell it to someone with more patience than you.
    62. Wait for it to come out on DVD - Movies are super expensive. The more movies you can wait to see on DVD (or rent from the library), the better.
      Groceries

    63. Bring your own bags - Many stores will give you a five cent discount for every bag you use.
    64. Only use coupons for things you usually buy - Ignore everything else.
    65. Go grocery shopping alone - You’ll get in and out quicker, with no extras in the shopping cart.
    66. Shop the perimeter of the store - That’s where you’ll find the fresh and refrigerated food that isn’t overly processed or prepared for convenience (and therefore, less expensive).
    67. Don’t buy non-grocery items at the grocery store - These items are priced much higher than they would be at Wal-Mart or Target, because they are convenience items when purchased at the grocery store.
    68. Purchase lunch food to take to work - I have a hard time with this, admittedly. But brown-bagging it can save you over $1,000 per year.
    69. Create a grocery store “price book” - Start keeping track of the items you buy regularly so you can tell when prices are rock bottom. To download a printable version, visit No Credit Needed.
    70. Wanna get a little more hard core? - Read about The Grocery Game and try the $1 4-month trial (after that it’s $10/month for one store). The Grocery Game features a database that tracks coupons, sales and specials, telling you what to buy when. I haven’t tried it yet, but other blogs say it saves you a lot of money if you’re not already the type of person who clips coupons and pays close attention to sales.

      Gifts

    71. Buy year-round gifts right after Christmas - After-Christmas clearance sales are a great time to find presents for children’s birthdays, as well as presents for next Christmas. You can even find “Christmas” wrapping paper that is appropriate for weddings or birthdays.
    72. Use your small credit card rewards point balance to buy gift cards - We rarely use our credit cards because we don’t trust ourselves to pay them off, but sometimes we have enough purchases to get a gift card for the Gap or Home Depot. These can be used as gifts.
    73. Re-Gift your gift cards - Sometimes when I’ve been really broke, I take in a gift card I received and use it to buy a new gift card (after all, it’d be pretty tacky to just cross my name out and write theirs down).
    74. Purchase sets of items that can be broken up into separate gifts - For example, a case of wine or a set of vases. Keep these items on hand for hostess, housewarming and engagement gifts.
    75. Ask for practical gifts - When you’re the recipient and someone asks you what you’d like, why don’t you ask for something practical that you would buy anyway?

      Taxes
    76. Stop paying for tax preparation - If your household’s adjusted gross income is $54,000 or less, you can file online for free at the IRS’ Free File website. You will have a choice of tax preparation websites, some of which also offer free state income tax filing and e-filing. If you are not eligible for Free File from the IRS, you can still prepare your federal return for free and e-file it with TurboTax online if you are a renter and file a 1040EZ or other simple return. Even if you cannot use these services, doing your own taxes is MUCH cheaper than having someone else do them for you. It’s also much simpler thanks to advanced software and websites that guide you through the process.
    77. Sign up for an FSA - If your employer offers Health or Dependent Care Flexible Spending Accounts (FSAs), sign up during your next benefit enrollment or when you have a qualifying life event (marriage, divorce, birth, adoption, etc.). Your doctor’s visits and daycare expenses with be paid with pre-tax money, and since the same amount is witheld from each paycheck, it makes budgeting much easier.
    78. Reduce your withholding - Getting a huge refund from Uncle Sam every year? Why not update your W4 and siphon the money from your paycheck to your debts automatically every payday?
      Unfinished Business
    79. Close old accounts - Do you have little balances left at your old banks? $8.16 here, $2.00 there? Call and close the accounts. The longer you wait, the less money you’ll have left, as most banks charge small fees for abandoned accounts to gradually deplete them.
    80. Check for missing money and unclaimed property - There are some great websites you can check to see if you’re owed money by a previous employer, the IRS, a long-lost relative, etc. Check out Get Rich Slowly’s post for details.

      Transportation

    81. Take public transportation - Check the routes and see if it’s feasible to ride the bus or take the subway to work. If not, can you use public transportation for errands or other trips?
    82. Carpool - Ride to work with a coworker, your significant other or look for someone on local ride share websites.
    83. Keep your car tuned up - Regular maintenance is the key to preventing costly repairs. Have the oil changed and tires rotated regularly, and follow the service schedule in your owners manual.
      Cash and Coin
    84. Use cash for purchases - You will spend less. Why else do you think all the fast food chains were so eager to accept debit cards? For your convenience? Ha!
    85. Don’t spend your change - Save it in a jar. When it gets full, take it to the bank and pay extra on your debts. Note to self: consider adding a lid to the jar so it doesn’t become the vending machine fund.
    86. Pick up found money - This includes change. Pennies, even. Put them in the jar. Wash hands.
    87. Institute the “love jar” - Everytime you have sex, put a dollar in the jar. Man, I wish my husband and I had started this before we got married.
      Earn More Money
    88. Ask for a raise - If you deserve one, ask!
    89. Sell your pseudo-valuable items online - Use eBay and Craigslist for the stuff worth more than $50 or so.
    90. Sell your junk in a garage sale - Go in with friends and neighbors, or have your garage sale during the neighborhood garage sale weekend.
    91. Participate in medical research studies - If you’re between the ages of 18 and 64, are taking no medications…you know the drill. Call the number and sign up already!
    92. Participate in marketing research studies - Although many studies are conducted online, the real money is in studies that need live people, like taste tests, focus groups and fit tests. Contact a local marketing research facility and inquire about getting on their contact list.
    93. Donate plasma - I know a guy who does this weekly. Call your local blood bank or plasma collection center for details.
    94. Turn your hobby into cash - If you play the piano, give piano lessons. Take photographs? Sell them to stock photo websites. Almost any hobby can be monetized (unless it’s playing video games - I still haven’t come up with one for that).
    95. Get a(nother) part-time job - Yes, I know you’ve already thought of that. Is it time to reconsider?

      Miscellaneous

    96. Pay your bills online - You’ll save stamps and save time.
    97. Start a Upromise account - Upromise is a service that gives you money for college by shopping at specific partnered retailers. This money can be linked to a 529 plan or to your existing student loan, if your loan is through Sallie Mae or another participating lender.
    98. Transfer balances (not just for credit cards) - If you have excellent credit and are paying off other (non-credit card) loans, consider transferring the balances to low- or no-interest rate credit cards. Just make sure to read the fine print (I generally won’t do it if there’s a transfer fee, or if the fee doesn’t have a low cap), and know that you will have it paid off before the rate goes up. I have done this for our car loans, and am planning on doing it with chunks of our home equity loan, assuming good offers are still out there when we begin paying that off.
    99. Have a weekly, bi-weekly or monthly budgeting meeting with your spouse/partner - It doesn’t have to be long. Go over the budget and promise not to spend any money not included in the budget without consulting each other first.
    100. Don’t hire people to do things that you have the time and ability to do yourself - Mow, fertilize and aerate your own lawn; Paint your own house; Lay your own tile; Do your own taxes; Walk your dog yourself; etc. You can start paying others to do the things you don’t like doing when you’re DEBT FREE!

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      Are Children’s Birthday Parties Getting Out of Control?

      My stepson turns 9 next month, and we are in the process of planning his birthday party. It’s not going to be too elaborate - we’re renting a couple of lanes at the bowling alley during “cosmic bowl” for about 8 kids and having cake. Total cost: $56 plus the cost of invitations, cake and paper plates/utensils.

      A few years ago, we had a bigger birthday package at a different bowling alley, where there were about 13 kids, pizza/hot dogs, cake/ice cream, arcade tokens, a private party room and a bowling pin that all the kids sign. Total cost of that package: $170 plus cake. I’m glad most of the parents stuck around, because there were so many kids I’m sure we would have lost one.

      Last year, we decided to keep things “simple” and had a slumber party at our house with three guests. It was pure hell - the kids were arguing, crying, chasing the dog, jumping off stairs and spraining ankles, etc. So we decided not to do that again until the kids are older. I will gladly pay the bowling alley $56 to avoid having a party at our house!

      Many of my stepson’s friends have much more elaborate parties than we do, however. Common parties include mini golf/go karts at a local fun center (package cost: $256 plus tax/gratuity), attending professional baseball games, lazer tag, parties at pottery studios, etc. Granted, most of the people throwing these parties can afford to, but it can create high expectations for the other children. For example, my stepson came home from a party last year and said, “Jake’s parents gave him $300 for his birthday! Can you believe that? I want to get $300 for my birthday!” So I calmly and politely explained that there is no way in hell that is going to happen.

      The trend toward more and more elaborate birthday parties for children is happening throughout the country. If you are interested in the topic, check out this website I found on the subject: http://www.birthdayswithoutpressure.org/

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      Much Worse than a Latte Factor: The Gift "Budget"

      While I feel like I had a frugal Valentine’s Day and birthday season, I estimate that we spend about $3,500 per year on gifts. That’s almost $300 per month! ($140 if you don’t count Christmas, which we pay for out of one of our two extra paychecks) This includes gifts, dining out on special occasions, birthday parties, holiday expenses, cards, etc.

      I’m not really sure how it got so out of control, or if it is really all that unusual. I try to stick to the following gift limits based on the receipient’s relationship to me:

      Birthdays:
      $70 Child
      $60 Spouse
      $30 Parent
      $20 Other Relatives and Friends (no party, no present - unless it’s a nephew/niece)
      $10-$15 Child’s Friends (no party, no present)

      Christmas:
      $350 Spouse, $50 Spouse’s Stocking (yes, I realize that’s a lot, but we don’t get much throughout the year)
      $300 Child, $30 Child’s Stocking (kids get presents from everyone!)
      $50 Parent
      $20 Sibling or Niece/Nephew

      Weddings:
      $50 Good Friends/Relatives
      $25 Everyone Else
      $30-$35 Shower Gift
      $20 Bachelorette/Bachelor Gift

      Other Stuff:
      $30-$35 Baby Shower Gift
      $30 Mother’s/Father’s Day Gift
      $170 Child’s Birthday Party/Cake
      $25 Anniversary Gift for Spouse
      $100 Anniversary Dinner/Entertainment
      $130 Hotel for Anniversary
      $50 4th of July Entertainment (i.e., Fireworks)
      $100 Christmas Entertainment (i.e., Symphony)

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